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I've been thinking that I should get to bloggin'. (The purist in me wonders if I should be verbin' like that.) I'd been waiting for the nudge to get me started. Well, I got the nudge. Invasive ductal carcinoma. This is my story about my breast cancer.
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My husband and I walked the Mississippi Mile over Memorial day and while spending that afternoon down by the river, I thought of Kevyn and her river.
I wanted to drop a note on your blog to say the Barrett/Doperalski's are praying for you, your family and your friends during this tough time.
I also wanted to let you know that if the 3+ footer wants to come over and play (or anyone of any size), they are welcome to hang out.
Keenieb
Don’t mean to change the tone here, but….
You left your desk at work kind of a mess, Kev. And those of us who have to walk past it every day are kind of hoping you’ll put cleaning it up on your to-do list.
No biggie…but get to it as soon as you can, okay?
Bergie
Bob -
Of course it's a mess. That means she's coming back. I figure those people who straighten up their desk every day are keeping organized so they pack for a quick get away.
And don't touch anything, she knows EXACTLY were everything is. It's ORGANIZED chaos.
You'll know Kevyn's really coming back if she left her trademark assortment of shoes under the desk. Can never be too prepared when it comes to available footware.
Don
One of my memories of my wife's chemo that brings a smile to my face was when we took her brand new wig out on a date. When she was fitted for her wig, she called me up and said we were taking her new wig out on a date to Kincaid's. When Kincaid's asked if it was a special occasion that we were celebrating, I did not think they would understand. No one in the restaurant noticed her wig. And for most of the night, neither did I. My wife was just as beautiful bald as she is with hair. I'm sure your family will think the same about you. Wishing you a recovery filled with humor, patience, and prayers.
I am going to tell you about some angels that really were there for me. It is a small story compared to your mom's, but the message is great, kind of like the big guy hitting you over the head with a bat to tell you that angels are there. I share this story with you so that you talk to your angels when you mom needs help through a bad time....
My cockatiel, Lulu, was startled off of my shoulder outside when a neighbor's dog barked. This was a few weeks ago. We are very bonded and I was heartbroken. We live in a thickly wooded area in Minnetonka and the trees are very large. Lulu sat and called to me for about two straight days while I kept vigil with my book, her food and her stoop. I was calm, I knew I couldn't get to her yet as long as I was close to her, I was ok. The news spread through our very tight neighborhood and soon I had lots of "help." The neighbors were so well intentioned but they freaked out the bird causing her to scibble higher and higher until she was above the tree canopy. After day two, I was exhausted, I hadn't eaten a meal, I hadn't cooked a meal for my family and I hadn't showered! I was a mess both physically and emotionally and at some point I came to the realization that she wasn't coming home by my hands. I went out to a meadow so get a last look at her and I called to my angels and God to help me. I named a few (grandparents etc) and I even asked for anyone that I couldn't remember at the time to help out. I also invited my angel's friends to help out as well. I simply asked for them to deliver Lulu back to me because quite simply, I could not. I returned to the woods to say goodbye and I heard a whisk sound and saw a hawk with a blur of gray go by me. I knew it was Lulu and I screamed and ran. When I got to where the hawk had flown, Lulu was on a bed on soft leaves and the hawk and gone off for a new meal. True story. It took her about a week to get back to herself but she didn't have a scratch on her. Ross Robert, there are angels out there to help you help your mom when everything else has been attempted. I feel strongly that your mom will be fine.Lulu is back to her wonderful, naughty self and I thank my angels every time I kiss her little downy head.
Thank you for the picture, Ross. You captured the mighty force of the river -- a metaphor for the power of the Almighty who will guide and lift up your mother and your family through this trying time.
And you stood on the Stone Arch Bridge -- a symbolic "crossing of the river". In your mom's case, this bridge and its arches represent her family, her friends, her listeners and all of us who are thinking of and praying for her. We will lift her up as well!
on behalf of Caroline
I wish you all the best. I miss you everyday. You are truly beautiful. I pray your health will be happy. Please be well
Thanks
caro
on behalf of Jennifer
I know you don't know me. I am one of your listeners. I just want to say good luck be strong and best wishes you can do it. I miss your voice on the radio. I pray for your health and a long remission.
Dear Kevin:
you are my daily inspiration. I read your postings, your son's updates and your friends comments daily. I pray for your recovery, you are making a difference in people's life. Be strong, be a WARRIOR!
Nancy
Just wanted to post and let you know that I went to the Brother Ali homecoming show on Friday night and I thought of you. Psalm One was there and I remember you said you like her, and they whole time she was on I was thinking of you. Well, really the whole time I was there I was thinking of you because I know that you are a huge supporter and I always like hearing you play Rhymesayers artists, and they talking about them. I look forward to hearing you play some and hearing you talk about them. Stay strong and rock on Kevyn Burger!
Kevyn,
I'm a 3 year survivor of the same type of cancer as you. I went through chem and radiation. It is not the most fun I've ever had but doable. The plus side is no more shaving your lrgs and getting ready in the morning is a breeze. Take time for your self and plan a big trip when you are done. My dauhter and I went to London when I was done, it was fabulous. You will have strange craving like when you were p.g. Laugh, rest and read trashy books, it helps get through days when you don't think you will make it.
Marnie
your picture reminds me of an old church hymn........"I've got peace like a river." The next verse states, "I've got joy like a river." I wish you joy and peace.
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Last week, I was driving across the St. Croix river coming home from a wonderful weekend with my family in Wisconsin. I happened to be listening to John Mayer's Continuum album and "The Heart of Life" came on just as I was reminded of Kevyn. Knowing her only from the radio, I've been impressed with her "broken hipster" love and knowledge of music. I hope you know there are a lot of us out here trying to "defend your silver lining."
beautiful photo, it is perfect
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